The best way that I know would to create a check on the page when you submit the info to make an if ( $page == "first_submit ) ... then print out the information you're verifying for delete. In that first printout, just print out all the info you do before teh sql.
Then the next link is "Confirm Delete" on the information. That will set $page == "confirm_delete". Just make another if, just like the first for that, except execute the sql statement.
Example:
if ( $page == "first_submit" ) {
echo ("All the info you're deleting or a id or whatever the item is");
echo ("A submit button that sets id = to that of the record you wanna delete");
} elseif ( $page == "confirm_delete" ) {
$sql = "delete from table where id = 'id'";
$result = mysql_db_query ($database, $sql);
echo ("Item ID:".$id." <b>deleted</b>");
Oh ya and make these all just post to the same file name. You can run almost an entire site off of one page if you're crafty enough. =)
Hope this helps...lil a confusing i spose