I think what you need is to use timestamp to subtract the date. I tried it, it worked.
$old_date = '9/10/2000';
$l1 = explode("/",$ddate);
$old_date_mktime = mktime(0,0,0,$l1[0],$l1[1],$l1[2]);
$today_mktime = mktime( 0, 0, 0, date("m"), date("d"), date("Y") );
$diff = $today_mktime - $old_date_mktime;
$diff_day = date('d', $diff);
echo $diff_day;