okay, I had the same problem, and here is my solution.
the option which is selected automatically is the one with <option selected --> syntax. what you need to do is get the value of Interests1 from the database and compare it with the ones you want in the drop down box. If the value from the database matches any value then just add "selected" syntax in the code, and that particular option is selected.
let me try to show an example.
the user has "Aerobics" stored in the db.
<?
$result = @("select col_name from db");
$user_val = @mysql_fetch_array($result);
// now the options stuff
echo "<select name=Interests>";
if ($user_val == "Acting")
echo "<option selected value=Acting>Acting
else
echo "<option value=Acting>Acting
if ($user_val == "Aerobics")
echo "<option selected value=Aerobics>Aerobics
else
echo "<option value=Aerobics>Aerobics";
echo "</select>";
try to optimise the code, eg have all the <options> value in a table and you could write a loop..
cheers
Nilesh.