hello peter,
there is no need to feel lost!
PHP is so intelligent that you just have to append a '$' sign in front of the html form elements' name to get their values in the page whish is set in action attribute of form.
example:
<form name=xyz action=file.php>
<input type=text name=mytext>
</form>
in file file.php
echo $mytext; // will echo the value entered in the text field
simple isn't it?
Cheers!