Sorry, i misunderstood your original post. You can't do this with PHP, you'll have to use javascript. Something like this:
<select id=select1 OnChange="select2.selectedIndex=select1.selectedIndex;">
<option value=1>one</option>
<option value=1>two</option>
<option value=1>three</option>
</select>
<select id=select2>
<option value=1>one</option>
<option value=1>two</option>
<option value=1>three</option>
</select>
Right, now if you select the first element in the first select menu, the first element in the second menu will automatically be highlighted... ie, whatever you select in the first dropdown will be selected in the second dropdown too.
Hopefully, you can figure out what you need to do now. Also the above code won't work in netscape.