If you are using MySQL, its very easy =)
in your select statement (when you grab the date):
$res = mysql_query("SELECT UNIX_TIMESTAMP(datefield) FROM tableName ....");
Then your resulting info will be a unix epoch timestamp... to add 90 days
$row = mysql_fetch_array($res); // Only 1 field selected in example
$newtime = $row[0] + (606024*90);
$newtime now contains the time from the DB + 90 days
Hope this helps
Ceph