No nah, uh oh... it seems I have been reading with my nose again...
A few posts back, Richie wrote this:
"I have it so that the user can list the order of the music they want buy favorite so when they view there favorites it listed in order if they remove lets say the 5th one I want it to adjust the table to reset the order"
That certainly warrants the use of a seperate ordering field.
Sorry Richie!
Allen's solutionis still valid though;
UPDATE table SET order_column = order_column - 1 WHERE order_column > $removed_order_number