Not all mailers seem to take notice of the 'Reply-To' header and instead bounce messages back to the sender - what to do in this case? AND, the from address is no longer who the message was sent to, but is instead the SMTP servers address (ie. Mailer-Daemon@mail.tcg.com.au)
I was hoping that I could use an 'Errors-To' header, but I can't find any information on how it is handled by SMTP servers - and the problem then of course is the return address.
The other option is to embedd some code in the subject, which could then be used to remove the user from the database, but again, not all mailers seem to return the subject intact.
So, I'm still perplexed.