NEVERMIND, I got it with one random thought
this is that I did...
$m = 01;
$d = 01;
$y = 2001;
$shift = some days
$nextdate=mktime(0,0,0,$m,$d+$shift,$y);
$new=date("m/d/Y",$nextdate);
print "$new";
Unless someone has a better way.
But this is perfect for me because my dates are already in 3 parts.