Age has absolutely no bearing on whether you will receive help, BUT unless you can learn to help yourself before expecting others to spoon feed you, you will no doubt receive many comments along similar lines from other"helpers" who get extremely frustrated at the lack of effort placed into learning by people like you.
I will always try to help, wherever help can be given AND where the recipient of any such help is willing to at least try to work things out for themselves. I offer that help for free, and without prejudice of age, race or sexual persuasion but I am not alone in trying to stress the importance to people of doing a little research for themselves, whether that be by purchasing relevant books, or by using the wonder of the internet that is a search engine.
If you want to program in VB then one of the first tasks you have is to learn about ODBC, because without that knowledge you'll be pretty much stuck on "Hello World" type apps with limited functionality. This is a php forum, not a visual basic forum.