to show i'm not crazy i found this code that is pretty much what I want:
<?
//
// A very simple PHP example that sends a HTTP POST to a remote site
//
$ch = curl_init();
curl_setopt($ch, CURLOPT_URL,"http://www.randomsite.com//cgi-bin/main/quicklinks/display.pl");
curl_setopt($ch, CURLOPT_POST, 1);
curl_setopt($ch, CURLOPT_POSTFIELDS, "LinkNum=3530");
curl_exec ($ch);
curl_close ($ch);
?>
but I don't have the curl libs compiled in php and I'm on windows so I don't think i can...any suggestions?