Why do you need to do that?
On the page thats shown whilst its being uploaded just have an iframe that loads the location of the form variable, ie if you set the form name for the image as $file, on the upload page have the iframe tags with the location as $file, and it will load the image into the iframe from their own hard drive, shows the image =]
Well actually, the iframe with an image tag that has that variable as the src, try it both ways, should work =]
Bleh another thing, if u enclose the form in an if statement to look if $submit is set, if it isnt it will show the form, then on the if else statement (if the $submit has a value of true or 1) then display the upload page and have the upload action so to speak in that page with the img tag and the variable for the file in the src.
Do you understand what I mean? My feedback form works on the if and if else routine, my mail action is in the confirmation page, I'm sure something similiar will work here =]