strtotime doesn't do the 03.30.1983 well...need to replace the '.'
$birthday = "03.30.1983";
$birthday = str_replace( ".", "/", "$birthday");
$birthday = strtotime($birthday);
$birthday = date("Ymd", $birthday);
$now = date("Ymd");
$age = floor(($now - $birthday)/10000);
echo("<br>$age");