well I finally found how to start up mySQL:
I do: C:\mysql\bin> mysqld-max --standalone
but then i get this:
fatal error: error message file 'c:\apache\mysql\share\english\errmsg.sys' had only 198 error messages, but it should have at least 218 error messages.
Check that the above file is the right version for this program!
ow and my apache server isn't even installed there it's in program files...
I didn't know where to put this but cause i'm a newbie i have put it here...