dont cry now... parse error means that you made a syntax error
like forgetting a semicolon or using quotes where you shouldnt
like here:
$somevar = "somevalue"
where it should be:
$somevar = "somevalue"<b>;</b>
or like here:
$somevar = "its called "the little house on the praire" ";
where you should do this:
$somevar = "its called \"the little house on the praire\" ";
i dont see exactly where you need help because your code is quite confusing but... thats about it