I have tried everything I did read the tutorial on hotscripts and have tutorials on this site and at webmonkey. They all say to modifiy your php.ini file and I have done it to all of there specifications but to no prevail. I don't really believe there is a way to keep the session alive without storeing a cookie set yourself to the user that will specify he's/her session id. Which is saved on my site for four hours.
I believe that I was told that there is already a cookie set by php but for somereason it isn't working on my site and I believe this to be an IIS to PHP problem.
Thank you for trying to help anyways though.