To connect to an MSAccess database you need an ODBC connection. Set up a DSN called emailAccess, for example, and set it to point to your access mdb file (I've only ever got it work with access when the mdb file is on the same server as the web server)
Having done that, you need to use the ODBC functions instead of the mysql database functions. Unfortunately you can't just do a global replace of 'mysql' with 'odbc' as the function parameters are sometimes different)
The difference which affect your functions are
$conn = mysql_connect("localhost",$db_user,$db_pass)
becomes
$conn = odbc_connect("DSNname",$db_user,$db_pass)
mysql_query($query)
becomes
odbc_exec($conn, $query)
mysql_select_db has no equivalent (you specify $conn in the queries)
hth