You may already know some of this, but here goes...
Javascript sees the <selects> as an array, and these form objects have a property called selectedIndex. So what you need to do is have PHP tell JS what index should be seleted by setting the seletedIndex.
document.form.select1.selectedIndex = <?php $_POST["select1"] ?>
something like that.
LMK if this is not what you were looking for.
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