"Values that are not in both"
"Values that are in either one but not in the other" (assuming we don't want to include elements that are in neither array...)
"Values that, if one is in the first it's not in the second; and if it's in the second, not in the first"
Oh, of course.
"Values that are in one or the other, but not in both."
(A U 😎 - (A n 😎
Appropriate algebra or a handy Venn diagram may well provide different formulations.
Don't be shy, of course it will:
(A - 😎 n (B - A)
Gee, that's just "Values that, if one is in the first it's not in the second; and if it's in the second, not in the first" again.
All's fair in love and programming