Javascript.
In the form do this
<form action='page.php' name='test' method='post' onsubmit='return validate()'>
then in your head
<script langugae='Javascript'>
function validate()
{
x=document.test
m=x.name_of_textarea.value
submitOK=\"true\"
if (m.length < 1)
{
alert(\"Must Have A Message\")
submitOK=\"false\"
}
if (m.length > 90)
{
alert(\"Message Too Long\")
submitOK=\"false\"
}
if (submitOK == \"false\")
{
return false
}
}
</script>
}
Now that should work