Well if people are gonna add them like this.. webmaster@blah.com use regex. Theres a tutorial on the site. An do a search on email validate in the forums.
Ok now you should also strip_tags()
Like so
$message = strip_tags($message,'');
if you want <b><i><u> and <br> allowed try this
$message = strip_tags($message,'<b> <i> <u> <br>');