It is an additional join -
SELECT Relation.Id , count(Relation.Id ) as NbRelation
FROM Relation, Word, definition
WHERE Relation.WordID = Word.Id
AND definition.wordid = word.wordid AND (Word.Value = 'xyz' OR Word.Value = 'xyzazz' OR Word.Value = 'xy123z' )
GROUP BY Relation.Id ORDER BY NbRelation desc
If you have a one to many relation between word and definition, this will alter the ordering.