I'm actually a little embarassed about my previous post 😃 . But I do have the form mail working, and I'm working on what I THINK coditoergosum was talking about in his original message. Turns out...Flash and PHP aren't that hard to work with at all...as far as Flash goes. Basically, all you need are variables in Flash, and action button or script. And simply tell the movie to speak to the PHP, which in turn will talk to SQL, etc.
i.e. loadVariablesNum("filename.php", "", "POST");
That pretty much does it for what I've encountered with the Flash end. I'm positive it can be more, ummmmmmm, "deep", but from what I know about PHP, I'd just assume have the PHP do it for me.