got it working to my satisfaction. Thanks for the help!!!
$e_mail = $emailIN;
$title = "Reset Password for Webpage Admin Access";
$content = "<html>";
$content .= "<head>";
$content .= "<SCRIPT LANGUAGE='JavaScript' SRC='window.js'></SCRIPT>";
$content .= "<style type='text/css'>";
$content .= "BODY,P { font-family: arial,helvetic,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; }";
$content .= "A { font-weight: bold; text-decoration: none; color: #000000; }";
$content .= "A:visited { font-weight: bold; text-decoration: none; color: #000000; }";
$content .= "A:hover { font-weight: bold; text-decoration: underline; color: #660033; }";
$content .= "</style>";
$content .= "</head>";
$content .= "<body>";
$content .= "<p>Dear ".$nameIN.",</p> ";
$content .= "<p>Your request to change your password has been received.";
$content .= "<br>To login to the admin area, you will need the following information:</p>";
$content .= "<p>Username: ".$userIN."";
$content .= "<br>Password: ".$changepw."</p>";
$content .= "<p>";
$content .= "<a href='http://www.mysite.org/admin/activate.php?id=".$idIN."&code=".$pass."&activate=change' onClick='return adminWindow()'>Click Here</a>";
$content .= " to finish activating your new password.</p>";
$content .= "<p>Thanks!<br>The Webmaster</p>";
$content .= "<p>This is an automated response, please do not reply!</p>";
$content .= "</body>";
$content .= "</html>";
$headers = "From:webmaster<webmaster@mysite.org>\r\n";
$headers .= "Reply-To:webmaster@mysite.org\r\n";
$headers .= "Content-Type: text/html; charset=\"ISO-8859-1\" \r\n";
$headers .= "X-Mailer: PHP/".phpversion();
mail("$e_mail","$title","$content","$headers");