apache and mysql run as an nt service, so you can view them by going start, control panel, administrative, services. I can't tell you about apache, as i run iis, but to create a batch to stop mysql create a file called stopmysql.bat in notepad, and put the following code into it...
net stop mysql
i'm guessing apache is probably net stop apache (not sure what the service name is, but you can check by going in to services.
to start the service, use net start mysql