Well, you're right to an extent, I am new to php and other scripting languages but I have done a few mail forms for a flash site, but I am toying with the idea of either using php and a mysql database or whether to hard code it, and use a php script to change variables in flash that could then influence say the colour of a particular date. I reckon this could work; an Irish way round??
Changing dates could then be done via a mysqlsend.php script to pass the value; dateAvailable or dateNotAvailable to each date in the calendar thereby addressing the value of the variable in flash.
Have been asked as a favour also, never too keen to embark on
quests.