If u TREAT him nicely,
he says u are IN LOVE with him;
- And that is a bad thing????
If u Don't,
he says u are PROUD.
- I wouldn't say proud, I'd say not worth it... I like to be treated the way I treat people... Meaning if I take care of my girl I expect that my girl takes care for me.. And thank god she does
If u DRESS Nicely,
he says u are trying to LURE him;
- Again, what is wrong with that... No shame in being beautiful... I enjoy watching my GF coz she has style
If you Don't,
he says u are from KAMPUNG.
If u ARGUE with him,
he says u are STUBBORN;
- yeah, okay, ur stubborn, but so am I, so that's even right?
If u keep QUIET,
he says u have no BRAINS.
- I won't say no brains, I'd say shy
If u are SMARTER than him,
he'll Lose FACE;
- I won't lose face, I would be intrigued
If he's Smarter than u,
he is GREAT.
If u don't Love him,
he Tries to POSSESS u;
- No, I'll let her go and cry my guts out
If u Love him,
he will try to LEAVE u.(very true huh?)
- Meaning every man that is married has a woman that doesn't love him??
If u don't Let him KISS u,
he says u don't Love him;
- Okay, agreed..I think cuddling and kissing is a part of showing that u loe someone
If u let him KISS! !
he says u are CHEAP.
- If I kiss my girl I'm glad I can
If u tell him your PROBLEM,
he says u are TROUBLESOME;
- I tell her that I'll do my best to support her
If u Don't,
he says dat u don't TRUST him
If u SCOLD him,
u are like a NANNY to him;
- Somewhat true, but knowing in the back of my head that my girl scolds me because she loves me and doesn't want to see me fail
If he SCOLDS u,
it is because he CARES for u.
If u BREAK your PROMISE,
u Cannot be TRUSTED;
- Depends on what kind of promise.. I promise to take out the trashcan tomorrow or I promise not to get involved in a gangbang... That's a whole other ballgame. If the promise isn't to "big" and the reason is a valid one, I forgive
If he BREAKS his,
he is FORCED to do so.
- Could be true, or he's just an ass and you should get yourself a real man
If u SMOKE, u are BAD girl;
If he SMOKES, he is GENTLEMAN.
- I used to smoke, the only reason I'd have troubles seeing my girl smoke is becoz we had frantic fights over the fact that I smoked... But I can't tell her what to do and what not to do, especially If I already did it
If u do WELL in your Exams,
he says it's LUCK;
- My girl just had her exams and she deserves her diploma more then I did.. So this is BS
If he does Well,
it's BRAINS.
If u HURT him,
u are CRUEL;
- No, Frustrated or not understanding what the guy means(works for both men and women)
If he HURTS u,
u are too SENSITIVE! !
- No, you're being stubborn (works for both men and women)
In no way I can say I agree with these sayings... Ofcourse, there are always men who are this way and, IMHO , those men should learn to respect their woman. But other way around is the same. Look , men make jokes about women, women make jokes about men, when I know that it's only joking then I do not mind, but when someone insults one gender coz he or she is not of that gender I get irritated. Men are NOT animals, men or NOT cavemen, men DO have feeling, men DO try to understand. Stop talking like men can do only. This stereotyping is getting on my nerves. I'm not saying I'm a saint, or that I have all the answwers or that what I say is 100% true, but I do say that at least I try the best I can to be exactly THE OPPOSITE of what you define as being "a man"