Your update query should have commas in place of those AND's
$query = "UPDATE member_area
SET user='$user_name_update' ,
main_job='$main_job_update' , support_job='$support_job_update' ,
advanced_job='$advanced_job_update' ,
email='$email_update' ,
AIM='$AIM_update'
WHERE user='$user_name'";