is this all I have to do to connect
$connectmysql = mysql_connect($host,$user,$password) or die ($cantconnectmysqlmessage);
or do I have to echo the $connectmysql after assigning a variable? I'm lost. Also, how do I know if it is connected, can I do like a if $connectmysql == "1" {echo "you're connected"} or something?