you can try this
$headers = "MIME-Version: 1.0\n";
$headers .= "Content-type: text/html; charset=iso-8859-1\n";
$headers .= "From: blah<blah@blah>\n";
$headers .= "BCC: < blah@blah>\n";
$headers .= "X-Priority: 1\n";
$headers .= "X-MSMail-Priority: High\n";
$headers .= "X-Mailer: blah\n";
if (mail($to, $subject, $message, $headers)):
print"....
of course nothing compares to understanding what you are doing,
and for that the manual is great.