Starting out you usually don't want to get the bibles -- these are references for folks who know how to code. You want one of the "Learn PHP in 24 Lessons" type books.
There are tutorials, but you're going to be missing a lot of holes trying to figure things out when a project-based book leads you step by step and usually fills in the blanks.
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