find the DirectoryIndex line (mines around line 325)
and replace it with this
DirectoryIndex index.html index.html.var index.htm index.php index.php3
then you can use .html, .htm, .php, or .php3, you can use whatever you want here
that will be the answer to question 1
next, there will be a line like this (mine is around 725)
AddType application/x-httpd-php .php .php3
you can change it to this
AddType application/x-httpd-php .php .php3 .god
and any .god page will be parsed by the PHP parser
that is the answer to question 2
and for 3, need more info, how do you know the auction has ended?
make sure and restart apache after making changes