Hello again... let me clearify.
I have a shopping cart where the final step is creating an invoice to be displayed in the browser for the user to be able to print off for their records.
my example domain name is www.shopping.com
in the background i have created a script to email myself about the order so i know an order has been placed and my email address is shane@shopping.com ... i always get the email my address is within the network.
I also want the invoice email mailed to the customer who's adress may be joe@acme.com but the system doesnt seem to send the email to them because they are outside my network.
the thing works they way i want if someone within my organizations places an order... say jane@shopping.com.... she gets a copy of the invoice as do i as i want one to know an order has been placed.
the from address of the email is store@shopping.com which is a valid email address for my network and should be allowed to relay email.
any more ideas?
Shane