You didn't specify the database engine so I'm going to assume MySQL, but your mileage may vary...
SELECT emailaddress, COUNT(emailaddress) AS duplicatecount FROM mytablename WHERE COUNT(emailaddress) > 1 GROUP BY emailaddress
I haven't tested this and my only uncertainty is the WHERE clause - it looks like valid SQL but because we're doing a COUNT() and GROUP BY, it may get hung up on the WHERE.
But essentially, you group all the email addresses together and have SQL count them up using COUNT(). The WHERE clause only returns the ones you're interested in: the duplicates.