On the main site, one of the most recent "tips" deals with this. IIRC, there's an older one, too.
The new one uses system commands in UNIX via the PHP CLI. It works well (heh, I wrote it...forgive shameless self-promotion please). The other is more like yours, based on fsockopen.
As for servers, here's the more/less "official" list.
#define NICHOST "whois.crsnic.net"
#define INICHOST "whois.networksolutions.com"
#define DNICHOST "whois.nic.mil"
#define GNICHOST "whois.nic.gov"
#define ANICHOST "whois.arin.net"
#define LNICHOST "whois.lacnic.net"
#define RNICHOST "whois.ripe.net"
#define PNICHOST "whois.apnic.net"
#define MNICHOST "whois.ra.net"
#define QNICHOST_TAIL ".whois-servers.net"
#define SNICHOST "whois.6bone.net"
#define BNICHOST "whois.registro.br"
#define NORIDHOST "whois.norid.no"
And I guess I'd better include this:
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