There is some considerable "rumoring" or "groundswell" that would suggest that the next top of the line Linux will be the Gentoo distro. But there are so many distros that it's nearly impossible to A/B them all, as you'd have to go through the alphabet what, 40 times?
Most regulars here know that I'm with stolzyboy on this one. :-)
Heck, it's my desktop OS now, too (though I've a KVM with a Winbox for client support).
As for the BSD/Linux wars, the real enemy is neither 😃