here is the size in kb for the row with id = 1:
$id = 1;
$query = "SELECT FORMAT(((LENGTH(field1) + LENGTH(field2) + LENGTH(field3) + LENGTH(field4) + LENGTH(field5)) / 1024), 2) AS row_size_in_kb
FROM dbtable
WHERE id = " . $id . ";";
i didnt test it but suppose it is close to a working solution - field1... youll have to replace with your fields obviously