php4om. Listen to this, because I'm giving you this advice for your own good.
You're the one with the problem. Your constant asking questions while ignoring answers; refusing to do any work or research of your own; failing to follow suggestions given to you by other people; and getting all upset and whining as soon as someone makes a comment are all very good ways of iniviting people to give you a hard time. Especially the whining.
Writing like someone who types by banging their head on the keyboard just makes it worse. I mean, if you can't be bothered to pay attention to what you write, why should anyone else?
No-one here has to help you. And from the way you behave, fewer and fewer people will want to. And the only person who misses out is you.
For all we can tell, you have so far done nothing. And what you're finding is that is exactly what people are going to do for you in return: nothing.
I'd give you some links:
http://www.phpbuilder.com/board/showthread.php?s=&threadid=10256106&highlight=prevent+downloads
http://www.phpbuilder.com/board/showthread.php?s=&threadid=10234946&highlight=prevent+downloads
but judging from your behaviour I think that instead of doing some work of your own and researching your problem and learning more about the suggestions made to you (that's all they are and that's all they are ever going to be) you'll just start complaining again. And who's got time to listen to that?