Well, after many more reading especially in dev.mysql.org, i finally came down to find the final answer and solution to my problems for now:-))
it seems that when i manipulate the date in csv, the date where forced in mm/dd/yyyy, initally they were in dd/mm/yyyy spanish. So anyway starting with the original date in mysql in text varchar dd/mm/yyyy, using this syntax, allow you to put out and visualize the new format in yyyy-mm-dd
select id, start_date, str_to_date (start_date,'%d/%m/%Y') as newstart_date, from my_table order by id;
start_date being the old date in text dd/mm/yyyy and of course newstart_date in yyyy-mm-dd
After checking the output is correct to next challenge in to insert the changes in your table.
what i did was to create a new field name newstart_date, date, null, default 0000-00-00 with phpmyadmin, then in sql:
update my_table set newstart_date= str_to_date(start_date,'%d/%m/%Y');
After that just eliminate on phpmyadmin start_date et rename newstart_date to start_date
AND IT WORKS.
I hope this will help
Giro