Pinging my FBSD machine on the loopback or on its LAN interface, I can get up to a packet size of 65007 bytes; anything greater returns a "ping: packet size too large" error message.
Pinging a Windows XP machine on the private LAN, a 25152 byte packet seems to be the largest that elicits a response. After that, just packet loss, but AFAIK at least the box is still up.
It just simply amazed me that so simple an attack as this one could disrupt client-server operations (and the print spooler) for the entire shop. We had to cycle the power to get the spooler going again ... but that was probably due to our ignorance of the operating system. After my "attack", I went to the console, and by the time I figured out how to get a command prompt, I could ping out again, but no print services ....
I'm going to put a sniffer on the wire right next to that box today; I've also contacted the OS vendor with a tenative "what advice can you give to assist us is addressing this issue" note --- of course, what I wish is I could kick the thing into the ocean; I really wish I'd been a bit more forceful about my opinion of unknown OSes when they bought the system; but this client was about 40% of my business for last year (boy, I need to expand) and as I know little about the widgets they sell, and "lots of people in that field use this SW", I sat back and let 'em buy into it.... 🙁
Bottom line, my client's not happy, so I'm not either.... Thanks to both of y'all for your help!!