Originally posted by LordShryku
Patience, patience....
Indeed. 😉
I'm on at least my second career. I taught professionally for a long time. During times of adjustment I've delivered pizzas, flipped burgers, hauled hay, been a secretary, and done some design and printing. I began planning a company in 1999. I started it in 2001. My wife (wonderful girl) and I both have part time jobs to make sure that we have time to make my venture something of a success.
It's now 2004; last year my total income (before expenses!) was still slightly less than the part time job that I hold down to help make ends meet as I get this thing going, and a tad more than hers. But, I don't intend to quit.
Personally, you must have a budget and disciplined spending habits. Professionally, you must have organization and people skills. You must also be willing to do "whatever" you can that you will be paid for while you gradually attract more of the kind of business you want. And, to try and stay OT with the subject of this thread, I too get very tired of reading, reading, reading...but that's the nature of this work, AFAICT, from not only my own experience, but from others I know and have read about.
When I started, I kept my business in a 3 ring notebook. That's not enough organization to bring in 10K, much less 100K [and this is an area everyone can work on...]. Gradually, it's moving along ... I'm fixing computers (when I can figure the &#*%& things out), installing networks for small offices and homes, and I spend a lot of time cleaning virii and adware off of infected Windows boxes, installing printers, making recommendations about this and that, and helping people correct their own stupid "pilot errors" via Windows XP Remote Assistance.
In the meantime, I'm hosting a couple of paying sites on my servers (I don't know if they make anything from them [well, one does, they say so ...] but I do...), creating a couple of sites using PHP for pay, (one's finished long since), building my own office infrastructure and organization (I'm now using PHP to track billing, customer data, my checkbook, my appointments, etc....) It's great --- when I need I new feature, I write one, and as it runs in a browser, its expandandable to as many stations as I can fit in the barn. And it's free, and that's very good for me. Just this week I got automagic calculation and printing of invoices. Now I can pay my "billing" lady to do something else, or tell her "bye" and hire someone with technical skills.
When the time is right, I'll advertise with something beyond just a website and business cards (yes, I've got a big box of them, and occasionally give one away) and wearing the same 6 polo shirts every week. Hopefully, I'll be ready; it will grow some more, I'm sure; how much is the question.
It's pretty much about people skills as much as anything else. I can sit here and code all day, but if I don't talk to a client, I don't know their needs, I don't have answers for them, I don't have the basis for sending them an invoice. If I'm not thinking about the needs of the businesses around me, I'm not putting myself in a position to pitch my services. If I'm not honing my skills, I'm not growing enough to handle the NBC (Next Big Challenge(tm)).
A friend of mine is in insurance. He has a big family, and lots and lots of friends --- nobody in the county it seems he doesn't know something about. He's built his business to the point that I'd call him fairly well off. Mostly by friendliness and word of mouth, and spending hours and hours on the phone. When I hang out with him during the day and even in the evening, his cell rings at least twice an hour, and 50% of the time it's a client ...
If you want to work for someone else, keep job hunting [and learn another language, and then another]. If you want to work for you, you'll probably need to suck it up and make it happen. Either way could work in the end.
But it's not likely that steaming about it will do much good. I hope it works out for you...