htmlspecialchars would work perfect for my form, but i have no clue even after reading that on how to use it.
So when i person adds the html to a textarea and then submits it to my database, it changes things like
<' (less than) becomes '<'
'>' (greater than) becomes '>'
And then when i go to view it on another page in a textarea it will show same thing, at which point i see if it is danerous before i actaully post it, and then i can actually put the html the way it should be.