If you have access to cron on *nix or task scheduler on windows, then you could try the following to mirror the mysql db:
use [man]mysqldump()[/man] to create a dump of the db
next, use the ftp functions to copy the sql file to the other mysql servers.
finally, run a script that will populate the databases with the file that you've just copied over
Obviously these scripts wouldn't be run too often because of the amount of bandwidth to keep copying the file over, but it could be run once a day to backup the db and also make sure all dbs are mirrored.
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