I thought that -nt was an argument because all the documents I had seen prior to that link (the mysql manual didn't say anything about mysql-nt at all)
I don't have a cnf file in my folders. Maybe that's the problem??
btw, I have 4.0.2
also, here is the .err file in my data folder
InnoDB: The first specified data file .\ibdata1 did not exist:
InnoDB: a new database to be created!
040618 13:04:10 InnoDB: Setting file .\ibdata1 size to 10 MB
InnoDB: Database physically writes the file full: wait...
040618 13:04:11 InnoDB: Log file .\ib_logfile0 did not exist: new to be created
InnoDB: Setting log file .\ib_logfile0 size to 5 MB
InnoDB: Database physically writes the file full: wait...
040618 13:04:11 InnoDB: Log file .\ib_logfile1 did not exist: new to be created
InnoDB: Setting log file .\ib_logfile1 size to 5 MB
InnoDB: Database physically writes the file full: wait...
InnoDB: Doublewrite buffer not found: creating new
InnoDB: Doublewrite buffer created
InnoDB: Creating foreign key constraint system tables
InnoDB: Foreign key constraint system tables created
040618 13:04:17 InnoDB: Started
mysqld-nt: ready for connections.
Version: '4.0.20a-nt' socket: '' port: 3306
And if I try mysqlshow, see a test dbase