I don't believe it's possible that way.
What I've done before, if I can remember, was to include a trigger in the url like go=1 and then with javascript enact something simple like a page reload in another frame.
onload = <?if ($g == '1') {
echo "something to target the other frame
using javascript blah, blah"; } ?>
From there, you could get much more complicated if you wanted, but you'll need the javascript.
Good luck...v