if you want to match a WORD, so that "it" does not get
kite
mitten
etc..
then your query should be something like this:
.. FROM table WHERE field REGEXP '\s+$fullWord\s+'
the \s+ means "white space, at least once"
to be precise, though, that would miss fields starting or ending in "it", right? (no white space). So this is better:
.. FROM table WHERE field REGEXP '(|\s)$fullWord($|\s)'
where |\s means either beginning of the string OR whitespace would work, and ($|\s) means either end of string OR whitesapce would work.
MAKE SURE you have an index on the field you're searching if possible; on large dbs this query could run more slowly.
Sam