ok with 4.1 you were able to select if remote connects could be made to mysql.
but with 4.0.22 i have no idea how to do this.
basically i need to run mysql on one machine and my IIS on another to limit loads. i dont know how to do this. it wil only accept local host (from one pc)
how do i changethat?
IE user soandso not allowed to connect to this mysql server
i cannot find any mysql help for this. the documentation sucks for mysql to