anything passed through a url is the GET method
take a look at the examples/comments for fsockopen(), there should be examples of how to POST data to another server.
but i think what you want to use is GET
for example
<a href="script.php?action=edit&record=12">edit this record</a>
then
// script.php
if ($_GET['action'] == 'edit') {
// let them edit it, output a form or something.
}