Okay, then why not change your HTML to be like this:
<input type="checkbox" name="row_id[]" value="id_number">
Then, when you want to call it, you count the number of selected rows, and itterate through there deleting all the posts:
<?php
$row_id = $_REQUEST['row_id'];
for($i=1; $i<=count($row_id); $i++){
mysql_query("DELETE FROM users WHERE id = '$realm_array[id]'",$link ) or die(mysql_error());
}
?>
That seems to better suit your needs, rather than checking each row, only delete what you need.
~Brett