I will have to check about the platform for the SQL server, but as for the router, is there some way I can check at my end? There is no chance of my pointing the router at my PHP box...
How would I go about running the SQL command line to connect remotely?? If necessary I can install a dummy copy of SQL server on this machine, but it will not have the data I am after... but it may be able to provide the prompt you are talking about...
I have posted what little error information I am getting from the PHP page in my first post, but for reference:
Warning: mssql_connect() [function.mssql-connect]: Unable to connect to server: ##.#.##.### in c:\Inetpub\wwwroot\connect.php on line 3
where line 3 is:
$conn = mssql_connect("##.#.##.###", "username", "password");